We have all heard of Law of Attraction and maybe used it as well to manifest our desires at some point on this journey. I too have stumbled upon many law of attraction videos, tried to make sense of some of the jargons such as “vortex”, “vibrational match”, “alignment”; additionally, I have incessantly googled, “how to have more wealth”, “how to receive with ease”, “how to manifest my soulmate” etc. The amount of online material available on this topic is inundated. I followed some tips that worked but there were many that did not. The lack kept coming back. Or shall I say, I kept going back to Lack.
Often finding a solution gets overwhelming. When we are faced with an adversity, our perspectives and priorities change instantly. Our first instinct is no more to analyze what we are doing wrong. Self-reflection or self-healing isn’t our first choice. So when we hear someone say “maybe you are not being a vibrational match”, or “hmm, I guess you are controlling your outcomes”, two responses come to mind – either we want to throw a shoe at them or we ‘feel’ their words so much that we get dejected tremendously. The result is the same – we are still where we were at.
In 2017, I had for the first time attended the Hay House Online Summit. From an unlimited list of some very inspirational speakers, I ended up watching the documentary, The Abundance Code by Julie Ann Cairns. I also heard her speak on abundance at the same event. It felt like it came at the right time because I was frustrated and anxious. I wanted to grow my spiritual business but wasn’t making much to invest in it. I was also looking for a job and was also tired of not being able to eliminate some of my debts. One of the things that stuck with me was this –
“How do I know I have a block when it’s below the level of my conscious awareness? Well I find that one of the biggest indicators of misalignment is frustration. If your subconscious beliefs align with your conscious desires, then the attainment of you desires just flows naturally – unconsciously, even. It feels easy. When your beliefs and your desires are not in alignment, then nothing is easy. Everything is a struggle and it feels like nothing flows.”
An important aspect while manifesting a more favorable outcome is to recognize our blocks. But how do we even know if we are blocked or not? It is simple – through our frustration levels. Take any area of your life that you think needs zero change. You will notice that what you believe about it and what you want as an outcome are so aligned that it feels free flowing and organic. And that’s why it is easy to receive it too.
Here are the exact steps you can follow if you resonate with my thoughts above. These are the steps I follow when I want to manifest anything small or big. It works well. But today let’s touch upon financial abundance. Let’s use these steps to manifest money.
1. Limiting Blocks
Louise Hay in her book, the power is within you talks about a shocking phenomenon –
“Most of us create the ideas we believe about life by the time we are five years old. We add a little bit more when we are teenagers, and maybe a tiny bit more when we’re older, but very little.”
She continues -
“…we live in the limitations of our five-year-old consciousness. It was something we accepted from our parents, and we still live under the limitations of our parents’ consciousness”.
When we begin asking relevant questions, we get to know about our five-year-old consciousness trap. Some beliefs could well be nourishing and love-filled, but many can be outdated. There are number of ways to ask these questions, a starting point for that would be to ask yourself “what fears do I have surrounding money?” Whatever beliefs you hold about money will start to flow. When you start writing down, you’ll be surprised at the memories that come up – known and unknown beliefs, familiar and shocking, you might also end up discovering a root cause that you didn’t think existed. The goal of this step is to bring to the surface the main cause of our problem. The good news is we can unblock, adjust and redefine our beliefs.
My state of mind – “I am frustrated with my financial circumstances”.
My Limiting block – “I think money doesn’t stay with me no matter how much I save. People find a way to take it from me”.
2. Radical Acceptance & Forgiveness
Acceptance is what ends the existing gunk and makes space for a brand-new experience. Taking inventory of our current circumstances is a very important step in the manifesting journey. Continuing to use our example about money, if we are in negative, we must accept this wholeheartedly. I have experienced that forgiveness exercises can be transformational. Once we readily accept our situation, we will seek forgiveness from ourselves first and then from others.
My acceptance statement – “I wholeheartedly accept that currently I don’t own much savings but I am ready and I am changing that”.
My Forgiveness statement to me – “I forgive myself for overspending”, “I forgive myself for undercharging a client even though I deserve much more”. I am sorry. I forgive you. I love you. Thank you.
My Forgiveness statement to others – “I forgive my ex-boss for not paying me well”. I am sorry. I forgive you. I love you. Thank you.
The acceptance and forgiveness statements can be as many as your memories of money are bringing up. We have asked triggering yet relevant questions, so don’t worry if multiple reasons come up.
3. Manifesting Abundance
We have affirmed that we are ready to change our money memories. We have also forgiven ourselves and others. We now tune into our own abundance and choose our new beliefs. Because we have changed our beliefs in the present moment, this means we are a brand new version already in the present moment. Hence, the tone of our affirmations or abundant statements, should be written in present tense.
Our Limiting statement – “I think money doesn’t stay with me no matter how much I save. People find a way to take it from me”.
Our New Affirmation – “I earn good money doing things I love. I have money to spare, and save. I am surrounded by people that love me and appreciate me”.
4. The Receiving Mode
The last and the final step in our manifesting journey is to open ourselves to endless possibilities. We get ready to receive blessings from the universe when we recognize that we are worthy of being supported and deserving of mega success. Receiving mode doesn’t just happen to us. We must consciously choose to be receptive each day. We must be open to being limitless. Choose to recognize that all the money that needs to flow to you is flowing to you with ease. Commit yourself on this journey and give this all the focus you got.
Openness + Commitment to self + Focus = The Receiving Mode.
While in the receiving mode, stop waiting for it to happen, lovingly let go off the outcome and consider it done. This completes the manifesting process.
The easiest way to achieve success in attracting abundance in your life is to make the process simple and the journey joyful. When we use mind numbing jargons, highly spiritual or extremely self-actualizing tips, our brain shuts down. Our instinct is to change our course and start looking for easier ways.
When the process of attracting is personalized, being a magnet is easier. Customizing the above technique as per your needs will yield better results. Be clear and specific about your wishes. You can use these steps to manifest a new love, money, weight loss, a new job, anything you may desire. While following this method, create a familiar universe, use words in your affirmation statements that feel true to your personality and life situation. Because creating a known space will make it that much sustainable and safe to thrive in and hence the statements or prompts you use will resonate more with you because they will tell a story about YOUR life.
Tuning into the power within us and consciously being in the reception mode will be the hardest on this journey, but with focus, Universe’s immense support and a burning desire for a deep transformation, one fairy night, lack will transform into abundance. And so it is!
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